6 Ways to Unleash Your Inner Hot Sexy Mama

by Pamela Madsen
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about women in over the age of 30 and beyond, and our feelings about leaving the “Maiden” stage of our lives behind. It is a big topic of discussion over coffee and long walks. And then, Nekole Malia Shapiro a friend and an extraordinary sexuality and birth educator declared to me: “It’s no longer about trying to reclaim the Maiden – the power lies in embracing the Red Hot Mama!”

Bam. Did she ever hit it on the head! For the woman over a certain age – so many of us are working to try and reclaim the Maiden or the young woman. What a waste of time! We chase the vanishing Maiden so many ways – from plastic surgery, lasers, diets and super paneled underwear to how we choose to walk in the world.

The interesting part is that most of the hot sexual juice is being held by the Red Hot Mamas! The woman who has lived a chunk of life, and is no longer concerned with perfect. You know that I speak the truth – you have seen her haven’t you? That woman of a certain age, tossing her hair and swinging her hips as she sashays down the street? She walks down the street with her eyes wide open, her smile soft on her lips and a willingness to not only see others – but for others to see herself. She is free.

Red Hot Mamas are no longer concerned with perfection – they know that is a game that no one can win. Instead Red Hot Mamas allow themselves to have a sense of inner abandon and are finally ready to give into their precious inner wildness. Please do not confuse Red Hot Mamas with Cougars. Cougars speak of being a sexual predator of young men. A Red Hot Mama does not need to hunt – men are attracted to her!

Are you ready to step into your Red Hot Mama-ness? Here are a few tips to help you get in touch with your own steaming, loving, sexy self.

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